Have you ever come home from another date where, you had a nice time, but you just didn't feel that connection?
And then afterwards, as you're sitting on the floor in your standard first-date-outfit, scrolling through Instagram - you see that nerdy High School classmate post their "She Said Yes!" photo? And immediately swear-off dating? And Instagram? Yeah, that was me.

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I truly did not understand. I was employed, used my turn-signal, wore a retainer every night to maintain my Rolls Royce smile that cost my parents a fortune, paid taxes, responded to texts, had a great head of hair (some of which actually belonged to me), and always had good breath. I mean, all things considered, I was a catch! 

Yet somehow, the dates that I experienced... one guy who showed up wasted to our first date, the one who told me how he found Jesus after hitting a telephone pole, the one who ran into an ex in the restaurant and sat her down for dinner with us, not to mention the three catfishing situations I fortunately caught wind of before our dates... It got to the point where my friends asked me to share these stories over dinners and at parties, as if I was a stand-up comic. These dates seemed to be so abnormal, that after 22 years of dating, all I could think of was - this must be happening for a reason.
 

As our everyday lives halted during the Pandemic, the Timeline Panic began to heavily set in. The thought of losing out on precious dating time - with no Real Life Return in sight - rolled in like a heavy thunderstorm; and suddenly, my mental and emotional health became extremely compromised.

 

As fate would have it, through the recommendation of a friend, I was put in touch with a Life Coach, who helped me discover my life-calling: all of these ridiculously entertaining (yet, incredibly depressing), failed dates were happening for a reason. It was so that I could become a Coach. So that I could learn about myself, and my own values and needs. So that I could figure out why I was attracting the wrong men, or, the right men at the wrong time. And, so that I could impart wisdom. Hopefully you'll never experience my crazy experiences, but in the off-chance that you do, I can teach you how to grow and learn from them.

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They say those who can't do, teach. Good news for you is, I can do both.